Of love and money
Dating does not
have to mean breaking the bank...
By
Ben Fischer
(Daily Kent Stater)
As much as we like to think that dating is
about finding a life-long soulmate, more often than not
it's about spending lots of cash, too.
Cash most college students don't have. But
who's to say financial strains should be a barrier to one
of our most basic needs? No one.
Kent State students, like students
everywhere else, are finding creative, cost-cutting ways
to have fun and perhaps go to bed satisfied without
breaking the bank.
Chris Culver, a freshman psychology major,
doesn't think it's tough to avoid big-money courtships at
all.
"There's a lot of stuff you can do without
spending money," he said. "You know, if you meet a girl on
campus, you're both on the food plan, you can just go to
the student center and both use your card. That doesn't
cost anything."
Culver was going to attend a party thrown
by the Sigma Gamma Rho sorority at the Student Center
ballroom last Friday. Combine a free party with a
reasonable dinner and you have a memorable night for
roughly $20 dollars, Culver said.
Nick Kazaglis agrees that one of the best
and cheapest dates possible is a raucous college party.
"I'll take her to a party," said Kazaglis,
a freshman business major. "But at the same time you have
to worry about other guys."
Kazaglis added how much he spends on a date
depends largely on his intentions.
"If I meet a girl on campus and I think
she's nice, I take her out to dinner, but also a party if
I'm looking for a good time," he euphemized.
Low-rent date opportunities abound on and
around the Kent State campus.
The Student Wellness and Recreation Center
is free to all students with a valid KSU ID, and the
Eastway Center offers pool for $2.50 per hour and bowling
for $2 per game.
Sometimes the best date is a cheap date,
said Jon Drew, a senior athletic training major.
"Go to a metropark," he said simply. "Girls
like that shit, walking and talking, and that doesn't cost
me anything."
Jodi Lume, a junior family and consumer
studies major, attributed the abundance of cheap dates to
the small-town atmosphere.
"Honestly, I lived here over the summer,
and there's not much to do in Kent besides a bar, and
those aren't expensive at all," she said. "The thing about
a bar is, if you don't want to talk to them, you don't
have to."
Richard Witt, a physics graduate student,
and Elena Cimpoiasu have been married for more than two
years and have been dating for almost four years. Watching
their money has become second nature for the couple, and
Witt said the best way to keep costs down on a date is to
cut corners on food.
"We eat fast food a lot, like everyone
else," he said. "That's one place we really watch our
money because it's so easy to spend a lot in a restaurant.
And there's so much else you can do with that money."
Witt repeated the oft-heard phrase that if
two people get along well, the setting for a date isn't as
important.
"We go to the park ... or when it gets
colder, a coffee shop and we enjoy each other's company,"
he said. "It really depends on how the two personalities
get along. We both enjoy talking, so we can do stuff like
that."
Culver also has a typical date schedule.
"We go to a party, or the Underground,
spend about five bucks to get in, then go back to her room
or mine and just chill," he said.
But even though finances constantly enter
the mind of most fun-seekers, if the weekend offers
possibilities tantalizing enough, money worries take a
back seat.
"I just go with it, if I like her,"
Kazaglis said. "Then worry about money later. I'd rather
use money for that than eat."
Drew might be more careful with his money,
but will still jump at a chance to have a good time, if
properly motivated.
"If I get tickets to the Browns or
something, I'll take it," he said, but then added, "Right
now, I ain't got money to spend on myself, let alone a
girl."
Another possibility for an interesting but
affordable date can be as simple as trying something new,
according to Witt.
"Another non-traditional thing is find a
place you both have never been to before and hop in the
car and check it out," he said.
Sound spending is important, but Witt
looked at the larger picture.