Tell a friend
Always tell a friend where you are going, and meet somewhere
public for your first date. It's also best to make your own
way to and from the venue - don't get your date to pick you
up. After your first meeting, if you don't feel comfortable,
don't continue the relationship. Simple as that.
Don't break
the bank
You don't have to flash your cash on a first date, so why not
meet for a coffee or lunch? You can then decide if you'd like
to spend more time and money on another date.
Go dutch
It's sometimes a good idea to agree to split the bill before
your date, so you'll avoid any awkward situations when the
plates have been cleared.
Be considerate
If you need to cancel a date, call the other person in good
time.
Don't get
disheartened
You might not meet the right person straight away - don't be
disappointed. Relax, be yourself and most importantly, have
fun. Every week we attract new advertisers and respondents.
Make it safe
Arrange meetings in public places, eg restaurants, pubs, etc,
not in your home. Don't give your address until you are sure
that you want to continue the relationship. Trust your
instincts and don't meet again if you have any doubts. On your
first meeting, it is best to make your own way to and from the
venue. It is best not to accept an offer of transport. Leave
details of your meeting with family or friends when seeing a
respondent for the first time.These points may seem
over-cautious, but if the person you meet is genuine, they
will understand.
Source:
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